Out of the blue the ex called me and was crying drunkenly about how his girlfriend has had a stroke and taken to the hospital. Then he got online and talked to me for an hour. Telling me how horrible she is, hitting him over the head with liquor bottles and beating him up etc.. but she is GREAT because she LOVES him. I told him so did I but look where it got me. He says "you never loved me". I guess I needed to hit him with liquor bottles to express my love for him.. Pathetic. Now he is really upset cause his unemployment ran out for the umteenth time. He has been on since Oct of 2007. No attempt to look for a job, just drink, drink, drink. Now he is loosing his house and the dogs. I told him to apply for bankruptcy or go to social services. He probably won't do either. I am so glad I am away from him. So glad.. those of you who know my history know why. Alot of my internet friends have been there to hold my hand for me thru my years of hell with him. I thank them and all of you who show me concern and good wishes!
You're a better person than I am; I wouldn't have listened to his nonsense for so long.
ReplyDeleteDebbie beats me all the time!
ReplyDeleteGirl, you are so fortunate to be away from that situation for your own sanity. Funny, how those exe's pop up and whine all over again as if you're going to fix the situation.
ReplyDeleteYou are a better person than I am. I would have said so sorry and hung up very soon and no way answer him online!
ReplyDeleteHe would have been talking to a dial tone if it were me. You took the high road and listened, there is something to be said for that.
ReplyDeleteGeesh, sounds like they have a totally dysfunctional relationship..wow.
I would have told him to call me when he wasn't drinking. Thank goodness you got away from this man.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your day.
I am so glad that you are out of that situation now and so are your children. Something to be really thankful for. Hugs, Helen
ReplyDeleteLinda, if you can, I would just shut this guy out of your life. You don't need to be listening to that crap, and don't waste your time on him. I don't know all the details, but if you have kids together, just limit your conversations to anything concerning the kids. If you have to, hang up on him. He'll get the message.
ReplyDeleteHugs, Beth
This guy sounds like bad news and, fortunately for you, he's yesterday's bad news.
ReplyDeleteBest,
Marty