Thursday, November 17, 2016
Self Sabotaging behavior
I asked Mike if he wanted to take next Thursday off (T-day) and spend it with me. I got the usual runaround about work schedule and so much work to do and how both sisters and the husband will be at the house, blah blah blah. I told him that he said to me just a few days ago "no wonder I'm single". I suggested that he is single because he wants to be or he is self sabotaging himself or he isn't really interested in me. I got no response of course. He thinks I don't understand. I see what he is doing, but I guess what I don't understand is WHY is he doing it? I don't want to be just the booty call now and then. I want a relationship with someone who is going to take the time to be with me. Not this sneaking around BS.